It is this tension that the Supreme Court, State of New York, County of Bronx explored in its November 25, 2014 decision in Matter of Caryl S.S., 91809/14, NYLJ 1202678313480, at *1 (Sup., BX, Decided November 25, 2014).  Caryl S.S. petitioned for the appointment of a guardian for her mother, Valerie L.S., an allegedly incapacitated person (the “AIP”), who was 92 years old and suffered from the effects of a recent stroke.  Caryl S.S. sought to be appointed as guardian for the